Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Who really should pick the bridesmaid dress?

The bride should!!! After all it is the bride's wedding, she has the vision for the day and it is all about her and the groom, so why wouldn't she also choose the bridesmaid dresses? Many brides feel that if they pick the dress themselves the bridesmaids may not like it.  Well, who really cares!! I hate to be harsh...but your wedding day isn't about making the bridesmaids happy. The day is about you and your beautiful husband and exactly what you want for this one special day.

Unfortunately we have experienced many unthoughtful bridesmaids at the boutique.  So many times the bride has picked out her favorite dress and someone just shoots it down with a negative comment like "you expect me to wear that?" or "there is no way I am going to wear that?" Seriously? Step up bridesmaids and be supportive! If the girls you choose are decent bridesmaids and care about your best interests they will be happy with whatever you choose and never say anything otherwise! If bridesmaids are giving you grief maybe think about ditching the bridesmaid and not the dress!

We love happy bridesmaids!

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